Mr. Peabody’s coal train has hauled it away…” Paradise, John Prine – Conor’s favorite musician
It is with deep sadness and heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Conor Proffitt, a beloved son, brother, friend, and neighbor, who tragically died on October 17, 2025. Conor was a resident of Culver City and a cherished member of the local community, known for his warmth, kindness, and unwavering dedication to peace.
Conor’s life was one of quiet but profound impact. He lived with a sense of purpose, always striving to make the world a better place, whether through his volunteer work with local organizations, his advocacy for social justice, or simply by being a compassionate and considerate presence in the lives of those who knew him. Whether discussing ethics, politics, or the nature of happiness, Conor’s insights were always profound, but never pretentious. Conor was a friend who listened, supported, and encouraged others to be their best selves. He had an incredible ability to connect with people from all walks of life, offering empathy and understanding in a world that often felt fractured. His passion for fostering peace, both in his community and in the larger world, was evident in everything he did.
One of Conor’s most cherished causes was organizing for safer spaces for cyclists in Culver City. As an avid cyclist, he recognized the importance of safe bike lanes for both the health of the environment and the safety of individuals. He worked alongside local activists and city leaders, pushing for better infrastructure and advocacy for safer streets, and contributed to the improvements in the city’s bike lanes. For Conor, this was not just about cycling—it was about creating a community that valued sustainability, wellness, and shared responsibility.
A regular at Jackson Market, and a passionate voice of Culver City Residents For Peace, Conor found friendship and belonging among locals who shared his love of good conversation, movies, books, and music. A Jesuit college graduate and accomplished software architect, he combined analytical brilliance with deep empathy. He was also active in local life, contributing his time and talents to campaigns for Freddy Puza, Nancy Barba, and Sameen Ahmadnia. Earlier this year, Conor read Palestinian Poet Refaat Alareer’s poem “If I must Die” at the Poetry and Prose for Peace event held at his beloved Village Well Bookstore. Finally, on October 16, 2025, he attended the screening of “Sudan: Remember Us” to show solidarity and bear witness to yet another global tragedy and holding space and compassion for the local Sudanese community.
Conor was the oldest of five siblings, and was close to his family. Whenever he visited his family in Missouri, his siblings would immediately run off into the woods to fish, hunt, and hike. Conor grew up tending his family’s large tract of country land with a bountiful garden from which his family supplied local charities with fresh produce. Conor is survived by his parents, siblings, extended family, and a vast circle of friends who will miss him more than words can express. He leaves behind a legacy of peace, love, and compassion, and while his life was far too brief, his impact will continue to inspire and guide those who knew him. The circumstances of Conor’s passing are still under investigation, but what remains undeniable is the profound impact Conor had on everyone he encountered. Those who loved him will carry his memory forever—his gentle smile, his generosity, and his spirit of kindness
A memorial service for Conor will be held at a later date, with Irish ballads, a nod to Conor’s Irish heritage that he was so proud of. All those whose lives he touched are welcome to attend and celebrate his remarkable life.
Conor’s music recordings can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/live/aIZC5eR3ENk?si=8cz-XZtJIRdiJmwr
Rest in peace, Conor. May Your light & music never fade.
Hala Mohammed
